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juno
08-18-2009, 11:27 AM
She would have been 89 next week. She went peacefully and with little pain. She was in a fantastic nursing home for the last two years, close to her children and grandchildren. She decided it was time and stopped eating at least two weeks earlier. I got to see her last week while she was still cognizant and had to return to FL tuesday. I am back in NH now for the services.

My father passed a few years ago.
My mom was a tiny woman but she had 9 boys and four girls, 34 grandchildren, and I honestly don't know how many great and great-great grandchildren.

She was the nicest person in the world and embodied unconditional love.

DOOM
08-18-2009, 11:32 AM
Truly sorry to hear this. I hope your family is holding up well.

Egon Spengler
08-18-2009, 11:36 AM
Sorry to hear.. my prayers are with you... Always tough to lose a loved one, but sometimes it is better to let them go than to watch them suffer... she is in a better place now!

SC Cheesehead
08-18-2009, 11:37 AM
Man, sorry to hear this, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dragcity
08-18-2009, 11:40 AM
God's speed to greener pastures.

Go2GuyFL
08-18-2009, 11:41 AM
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Take comfort she's at peace now and positively impacted so many lives.

Hacklemerc
08-18-2009, 11:45 AM
Sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.

Hack

RoyLPita
08-18-2009, 11:49 AM
I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences for you and your family.

dohc324ci
08-18-2009, 12:11 PM
Juno,

Sorry to hear of your loss you have my condolences.

Paul T. Casey
08-18-2009, 12:24 PM
Thoughts and prayers to you. Your Mom sounded like a great person, and has left quite a legacy.

LIGHTNIN1
08-18-2009, 12:38 PM
Sorry to hear this. Condolences. Any woman that raised that many children and grandchildren and lived to that age is truly a giant among men and women.

CBT
08-18-2009, 01:42 PM
Sad to hear that, sorry for your loss.

twin03
08-18-2009, 02:13 PM
Sorry for your loss Juno...

Marauderjack
08-18-2009, 02:33 PM
Sorry for your loss juno....it is never easy but for sure she had a long life and made many of you very happy!!!

I lost my Mother in 1974 to cancer and was holding her hand when she took her last breath.....I was 26 and have remembered that day EVERY day since!!!:alone:

Consider yourself very lucky to have had her with you for so long!!

DJCV
08-18-2009, 02:42 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. It sounds as if she lived a full life and left behind her many loving offspring to extend & cherish her memory.

BhamMarauder
08-18-2009, 02:51 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss.

LSp8
08-18-2009, 02:52 PM
Your mom was a blessed woman, living to see 89 years of life, Im sorry for the loss but I am glad to know she had many years of life. I hope to reach that age someday.

ntd
08-18-2009, 02:58 PM
I'm sorry for your loss and I know how it feels I just lost my grandmother. Look at it this way see lived a full life and had great family. She also got to pass with the one that she loved and was loved buy. We should all be so lucky when our time comes

ctrlraven
08-18-2009, 03:09 PM
Very sorry for your lost Juno.

Cobra25
08-18-2009, 03:23 PM
I'm truly sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. My condolance's & Blessings too you and your family Jay.

Ms. Denmark
08-18-2009, 04:51 PM
She sounds like a truely amazing woman. May you and all her loved ones take comfort in celebrating her remarkable life and her gift of unconditional love. You are in our prayers.

jgc61sr2002
08-18-2009, 05:11 PM
Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.

O's Fan Rich
08-18-2009, 05:24 PM
Jay.... I'm hugging you from PA...

Sorry for your loss.

W4LTD
08-18-2009, 05:47 PM
My condolences to you and your family, may she rest in peace...

rayjay
08-18-2009, 06:05 PM
Truly sorry to hear this. My mother passed back in April. I'm still trying to get used to both my parents being gone.

UncleLar
08-18-2009, 06:05 PM
I'm sorry to hear you lost your mother,I lost mine back in Jan.1988 and I still miss her and always will.But if you look you'll see she's still here,there's some of her in you,your siblings if you have any and in all those grand kids,great grand kids and great great grand kids.
You can mourn her passing but you should also celebrate her life.

Dr Caleb
08-18-2009, 09:36 PM
Add one to the condolences list. I know how it feels, and it isn't fun. The good news is, she will still be nagging you to eat your vegetables for years to come.

The lessons our mothers teach us are never forgotten.

Mike
08-18-2009, 09:46 PM
Sorry for your loss, condolences to you and your family.

Benwin
08-18-2009, 10:27 PM
My best wishes go out to you and your family. I'm glad she went peacefully, and lived a full life.

03calitejas
08-19-2009, 07:38 AM
Sorry for your loss. I like that she was aware of her situation and was able to decide when to check out on her terms. That unconditional love thing is something she passed on to those around her. Celebrate her life in your memory and pass on the memory of her love to all the kids and grandkids with good bedtime stories when you can.

Peace

TAKEDOWN
08-19-2009, 07:41 AM
My prayers are with you Sir! Sounds like she definitely lived life.

cougar9150
08-19-2009, 09:15 AM
My condolences to you and your family. Even when you and them are ready it still hurts to let the ones you love go. You will be in my family's thoughts.

juno
08-25-2009, 05:21 AM
I want to thank everyone for the kind words and condolences.
All in all, everything went well and we made a point to treat the process as a celebration of her life, not to mourn her death.

Thanks again folks!!!

magindat
08-25-2009, 09:14 AM
Jay,
I'm late seeing this. My condolences.
Rich

JUST 1BULLITT
08-25-2009, 05:15 PM
Hey Jay,
SAME here; VERY SORRY to hear of your sad news -- I'm late seeing this message too -- but it's great to see the outpouring of SUPPORT from the good folks of this unique community!

Take care and God's Speed!

ginson3
08-25-2009, 05:26 PM
Peace be with you and all those that shared her special love and pesence

eric jones
08-25-2009, 05:38 PM
Condolences for your loss. There is NO love like the love of your mother

W4LTD
08-25-2009, 05:52 PM
Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.

ckadiddle
08-27-2009, 07:37 AM
Our prayers are with you and your family. This planet is surely a poor place without her.