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Bluerauder
10-05-2012, 11:24 AM
Just got a call from my wife. Her brother is back in the Emergency room at University Hospital in Baltimore. His health has been failing for years. In fact, I had to cut a Louisville trip short a couple years ago for a close call back then. He has had heart issues, lung and kidney problems, diabetes and is a double amputee. Doesn't look good this time around. Leaving now to pick up the wife and head up the road to Baltimore. Please keep Paul in your thoughts and prayers. He's a fighter and will need lots of help on this go-around. Thanks,

Charlie

Papillon
10-05-2012, 11:28 AM
So sorry to hear this Charlie. He, as well as you, Bern and your family will be in our thoughts & prayers.

Mr. Man
10-05-2012, 11:28 AM
Hope everything works out for the best Charlie. Paula and I will keep you and Bernie in our thoughts.

MM03MOK
10-05-2012, 11:33 AM
Prayers and positive thoughts travel with you, Charlie and Bern!

ROCOB
10-05-2012, 11:40 AM
prayers sent for Paul the entire family.

risky
10-05-2012, 12:27 PM
Prayers sent

Comin' in Hot
10-05-2012, 12:33 PM
Prayers sent

Bluerauder
10-05-2012, 01:07 PM
Keep those thoughts and prayer commin' seems the medication is beginning to work and they are seeing some improvement. The trip has been delayed until the morning at the advice of Paul's wife and kids.

boatmangc
10-05-2012, 01:41 PM
Prayers sent and safe travels

Roadwarrior
10-05-2012, 01:56 PM
Prayers sent & have a safe trip.

RubberCtyRauder
10-05-2012, 02:00 PM
Prayers and well wishes sent

RoyLPita
10-05-2012, 02:23 PM
Prayers sent.....

marauder410
10-05-2012, 02:52 PM
prayers sent thats aweful

J-MAN
10-05-2012, 03:11 PM
Prayers and positive thoughts sent.

ncmm
10-05-2012, 03:14 PM
prayers and positive thoughts for your family

DOOM
10-05-2012, 03:27 PM
Sorry to hear the bad news Charlie. Prayers sent.

FastMerc
10-05-2012, 05:30 PM
Prayers sent Charlie best of luck.

Ms. Denmark
10-05-2012, 06:07 PM
Please keep us posted Charlie, We send our love and prayers to you, Bernie, Paul and all his loved ones. Safe travels tomorrow. Hope you find things have improved and Paul is resting comfortably.

Shaijack
10-05-2012, 06:19 PM
Charlie I will add you to my prayer list.

HammerDown
10-05-2012, 06:57 PM
Bern & Charlie:

Brother Paul is in our prayers--hope things improve...............


Connie & Jack

GAMike
10-05-2012, 07:23 PM
Fingers crossed for Paul & family......... He's gotta be a tough SOB to fight the way he has.... Something tells me he's got alot more left in the tank!

Bigdogjim
10-05-2012, 09:33 PM
Added to the Prayer list. God Bless.

Bradley G
10-06-2012, 12:33 AM
Prayers for Paul!
He is fortunate to have a caring family surrounding him.

Krytin
10-06-2012, 03:12 AM
You and your family are on my prayer list.

SC Cheesehead
10-06-2012, 06:50 AM
Prayers sent, Charlie.

Let Bernie know that you guys are in my thoughts and prayers as well. Keep us posted.

Bluerauder
10-06-2012, 07:26 AM
Fingers crossed for Paul & family......... He's gotta be a tough SOB to fight the way he has.... Something tells me he's got alot more left in the tank!

You got that ^^^^ right!!! And despite all the problems, he remains the most upbeat and positive person that I know. Incredible.

They put him on a breathing tube last night. Were supposed to leave here at 10:00 AM. Looks like departure has been slipped by at least 30 minutes. After 37 years, you would think that our clocks were synchronized. Nope. :rolleyes:

Ken
10-06-2012, 09:06 AM
Prayers sent

HammerDown
10-06-2012, 10:19 AM
More prayers for all of you.....

Connie & Jack

Bluerauder
10-06-2012, 03:16 PM
Paul is doing much better today. Yesterday, not so much. He is on a breathing tube and quite heavily sedated. He is resting comfortably and things look under control or at least headed in that direction. Looks like the internal bleeding (from a botched procedure IMHO) has stopped or at least slowed to the point that he no longer needs transfusions. We spent about 4 hours there at the hospital with 2 members of the family rotating through the CCU (Cardiac Care Unit). His brothers and sisters, wife and kids were all there. He slept for most of the time we were there. Probably best that way to gain his strength.

Bernie and I were the first ones there this morning and spoke at length with his young male R.N. ... real sharp guy and I felt much better after talking with him. Very knowledgeable. Glad they have folks like that in the health care business.

Bernie and I appreciate the thoughts and prayers. He is far from "out of the woods" on this one. I am convinced that the positive waves coming from MM.Net is helping alot. Thanks,

Charlie

jsignorelli
10-06-2012, 08:19 PM
Tomorrow at Mass, I will be including him in our special prayers for the sick when I read the list.

Guittard22
10-06-2012, 08:43 PM
prayers sent and wishes to the family

05crownsport
10-06-2012, 11:38 PM
Paul will be in our thoughts and prayers Charlie.

LANDY
10-07-2012, 12:10 AM
Prayers and blessing going your way Bluerauder.

HammerDown
10-07-2012, 06:18 AM
Continued prayers for Paul and his family,

Connie & Jack

SID210SA
10-07-2012, 06:48 AM
Prayers sent

Mike & Rosa

TAKEDOWN
10-07-2012, 11:55 PM
Prayers sent and we hope for the best, Sir!

Bluerauder
10-10-2012, 04:51 PM
Update on the situation ....

Paul had been improving steady for 3 days since Saturday. Things were looking up. Yesterday, however, he developed a fever and an internal infection. Antibiotics were not knocking down the infection, he was taken into surgery today about 1:30 PM.

He came through surgery OK, things were looking good, and the family went home. Shortly thereafter his blood pressure began to drop and his heart rate started to increase. The family is now back at the hospital after a call from the doctor.

Paul is still fighting this ..... any help will be greatly appeciated. He needs it. Bernie is holding up well but this latest development has everyone very concerned.

Ms. Denmark
10-10-2012, 05:03 PM
So sorry to hear this. What a rollercoaster ride emotionally for all of you. Eric and I continue to send our prayers for him and of course for you and Bernie.

Mark B.
10-10-2012, 05:31 PM
A prayer has been sent for your family, especially your wife's brother.
I, too, have a brother who is dying of cancer. G-D be with my brother, your wife's brother, and your entire family.
Mark B.

Ladyhawke
10-10-2012, 05:57 PM
Thoughts and prayers sent.

05crownsport
10-10-2012, 06:27 PM
We're praying for him Charlie! Keep us posted on his progress. Know that we're here for you in this time of need.

HammerDown
10-10-2012, 07:08 PM
Our continued prayers for Paul and all his family.

Bluerauder
10-10-2012, 07:42 PM
Not good at all right now. Leaving here to head to Baltimore so Bernie can be with family. :(

GAMike
10-10-2012, 09:38 PM
Stay strong for the Family Blue..... Sorry to hear about this .....

boatmangc
10-11-2012, 03:42 AM
Prayers sent, be safe on your travels, fatigue during times like this make it very easy to get distracted.

Bluerauder
10-11-2012, 01:31 PM
Sad news :( ...... Paul lost his battle this morning at 4:00 AM, 10/11/12. We got a call at about 10:30 PM last night and arrived at the hospital a little past midnight. His blood pressure and vitals had been dropping all night. The end came rather peacefully with his family by his side. Very difficult time for them. Very long night for the family.

Paul was 66. He was a combat medic in Vietnam during the '67-'68 timeframe. When he returned from overseas, he went right out and bought a new 1968 Pontiac Firebird convertible 350 CID (5.7L) in metal flake blue. He worked for General Motors for many years at the Broening Highway plant in Baltimore. He is survived by his wife and 3 children (all there last night), 3 sisters and a brother.

He gave me the 3rd degree as the "older brother" when I came to pick up his baby sister for our very first date in 1971. I was sweating bullets .... especially on the "Want a beer??" trick question. ;)

Miss ya Paul. I'll take care of your little sister .... but you knew that already !! :cry:

Please keep his family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Papillon
10-11-2012, 01:37 PM
Oh Charlie :(, I'm so, so sorry for your family's loss.

I hope the memories you have of him help you guys through this tough time.

Will keep you in my thoughts & prayers

Krytin
10-11-2012, 01:55 PM
Sorry for your loss Charlie.
Thoughts and prayers are still with you and your family.

GAMike
10-11-2012, 02:17 PM
My condolences to you, your wife & her family Charlie.... Sad news indeed....

HammerDown
10-11-2012, 03:47 PM
Bernie and Charlie--so very sorry to hear this. Condolences and prayers for peace for all of Paul's family.......

Ladyhawke
10-11-2012, 06:07 PM
Charlie & Bernie,

We are very sorry to hear this news. You and your family are in your prayers. Paul is at peace now.

This has been a terrible year, let's move onto 2013.

Chris & Gordon

05crownsport
10-11-2012, 07:37 PM
So sorry to hear of this Charlie:( It's true about the good dying young. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

CWright
10-11-2012, 07:40 PM
Sorry to hear this news Charlie. Kim and I will definately be lifting you guys up in prayer.

LeoVampire
10-13-2012, 12:20 PM
So very sorry to hear about the loss!

I hope you and your family can manage to over come the grief and all be there for each other!

Please take care of yourself

Ms. Denmark
10-13-2012, 01:32 PM
We are so sorry to hear this, Charlie. If it had to be, he was surely comforted knowing he had his loved ones by his side to see him through to the end. Eric and I send our love and prayers to you and Bernie, and our deepest sympathy to all Paul's family.

MyTMerc
10-13-2012, 03:38 PM
Sorry for your loss. Diane and I will have you, Bernie and family in our prayers.

jabird56
10-14-2012, 07:53 AM
Charlie & Bernie,

Sorry to hear of your loss, our prayers are with you and your family.

Jay and Denise

RoyLPita
10-14-2012, 04:02 PM
I'm sorry for your loss, Charlie.

Bluerauder
10-16-2012, 09:16 AM
I want to thank the MM.Net and all of the members for their outpouring of support during this very difficult time. Your thoughts, prayers and support are greatly appreciated.

My brother-in-law Paul was laid to rest yesterday with full military honors at his funeral. The turnout of family, friends and people that have known him over the years was phenomenal. They all remembered a man who despite all of the physical challenges that were presented to him was able to maintain a sense of humor and who put a positive spin on every situation.

He will be missed.

Bigdogjim
10-16-2012, 09:18 AM
Sorry for your loss.

God Bless RIP

:flag: :flag:

Rockettman
10-16-2012, 10:32 AM
Very sorry to hear this; and my thoughts go out to you and all the family.
R.I.P.

1 Bad Merc
10-16-2012, 01:04 PM
Sorry for your loss-We will be praying for your family.