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boatmangc
02-03-2013, 11:39 AM
As most of you know, I have been caring for my Father in Law and then handling the estate after his 12/25/12 passing.
I have been home maybe 5 weeks since SSHS
What I haven't shared is my wife's health.
She began having trouble choking on food and liquids about 6 months ago and hasn't been able to accompany me while caring for her father and affairs.
During his illness and my absence she has begun having panic attacks now.
We have been through CT scans, MRIs and swallow studies.
Turns out she has a bone spur in her cervical spine facing forward and crushing her esophagus.
We also found 3 badly degenerated discs during all of the tests.
We are putting her in the hospital on 2/20 for surgery. After that we are looking at a 6-8 week recovery.

Gary gets to be Mr Mom again..

Like I said in another post today , sometimes life gets pretty complicated.

mercury5
02-03-2013, 11:47 AM
Hang in there, i know what you mean,Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

fastblackmerc
02-03-2013, 11:48 AM
Gary, our thoughts and prayers to you and your wife.

Mr. Man
02-03-2013, 12:07 PM
Paula and I will keep you and your wife in our thoughts and are hoping for your wife to have a successful operation and speedy recovery. :)

whitey
02-03-2013, 12:29 PM
Hope everything goes good, sometimes things get worse before they get better

MM2004
02-03-2013, 12:34 PM
Stay strong Gary.

We are your extended family, and wish the very best for your wife and yourself!

:)

Mike.

PonyUP
02-03-2013, 12:52 PM
We are with you Gary, let us know if we can be of any help


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dohc324ci
02-03-2013, 01:03 PM
Hope the surgery/ recovery goes well for your wife.

Comin' in Hot
02-03-2013, 01:41 PM
Hang in there, prayers sent

HammerDown
02-03-2013, 03:13 PM
so sorry for all this bad stuff

our prayers for your wife's successful surgery and prayers for you --hang in there


Connie & Jack (Fordfrk)

martyo
02-03-2013, 03:16 PM
We will be pulling for you and your wife Gary!

Cobra25
02-03-2013, 07:02 PM
Your a good person, Try to stay strong, things have a way of working out. I'll say a prayer for your wife.

CWright
02-03-2013, 07:06 PM
We are praying for your Wife Gary!

GAMike
02-03-2013, 10:04 PM
You have been through a hell of alot to get this kind of news bud..... I will be keeping positive thoughts for your wifes speedy and full recovery....

DOOM
02-03-2013, 11:22 PM
Hang in there man.

SC Cheesehead
02-04-2013, 04:24 AM
Oh gosh, Gary.

You're back on the prayer list.

Stay strong, my friend.

Haggis
02-04-2013, 05:26 AM
We will keep your wife and you in our thoughts.

RoyLPita
02-04-2013, 06:36 AM
Prayers sent.............

MMBLUE
02-04-2013, 07:38 AM
Prayers for your wife Gary and a speedy recovery. A blessing that they found what was the problem.

LANDY
02-04-2013, 10:22 AM
I send my prayers for a successful surgery and recovery. Hang in there, better days will come.

boatmangc
02-20-2013, 04:55 AM
Wife is having surgery at 8:30 this morning
Positive thoughts and/or prayers please


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Haggis
02-20-2013, 05:05 AM
Wife is having surgery at 8:30 this morning
Positive thoughts and/or prayers please


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We will keep you and your wife in our thoughts and prayers.

GAMike
02-20-2013, 05:59 AM
Keeping positive thoughts bud:) Lets hear some good news for a change!

RoyLPita
02-20-2013, 06:00 AM
Prayers sent.....

CBT
02-20-2013, 06:16 AM
Praying it goes well.

knine
02-20-2013, 06:19 AM
Prayers sent.

HammerDown
02-20-2013, 06:25 AM
prayers said right now............

ROCOB
02-20-2013, 06:35 AM
Prayers sent for your wife, you, and anyone involved in her care.

boatmangc
02-20-2013, 06:30 PM
My wife, Paula, came through the surgery fine, however she is reacting to ALL the pain meds. It's gonna be a looong nite....

SC Cheesehead
02-20-2013, 07:28 PM
My wife, Paula, came through the surgery fine, however she is reacting to ALL the pain meds. It's gonna be a looong nite....


Please let Paula know we're praying for her.

GAMike
02-20-2013, 07:44 PM
Glad she had no other complications Gary..... Hopefully they will get the dosage and med type right very soon.... Positive thoughts bud...

CBT
02-21-2013, 04:23 AM
Glad she had no other complications Gary..... Hopefully they will get the dosage and med type right very soon.... Positive thoughts bud...

Ditto what Mike said.

boatmangc
02-28-2013, 04:37 AM
Paula is home and recovering well. SHe is sore but definitely on the mend.
We have been taking daily walks. I go back to work part time today now that I can leave her alone for a while.

Thanks to everyone for their support.

Cobra25
02-28-2013, 04:55 AM
Paula is home and recovering well. SHe is sore but definitely on the mend.
We have been taking daily walks. I go back to work part time today now that I can leave her alone for a while.

Thanks to everyone for their support.Glad to here she is recovering well.

Haggis
02-28-2013, 05:47 AM
Paula is home and recovering well. SHe is sore but definitely on the mend.
We have been taking daily walks. I go back to work part time today now that I can leave her alone for a while.

Thanks to everyone for their support.

Glad to hear your wife is home and resting.

WhatsUpDOHC
02-28-2013, 05:52 AM
Glad to hear that she's doing well, Gary.

2,4shofast
02-28-2013, 07:02 AM
Sorry to hear about the bad news, at least they have discovered the problem and will be fixing it soon. I pray for a fast recovery.

fastblackmerc
02-28-2013, 08:02 AM
Gary, glad your wife's at home. Praying for a speedy and complete recovery!

slickster
02-28-2013, 08:27 AM
glad everything went well.

PonyUP
02-28-2013, 08:32 AM
glad she is on the mend Gary

CBT
03-01-2013, 04:09 AM
Paula is home and recovering well. SHe is sore but definitely on the mend.
We have been taking daily walks. I go back to work part time today now that I can leave her alone for a while.

Thanks to everyone for their support.
Good news!

knine
03-04-2013, 03:07 AM
Good news!

MMcactusflower
03-04-2013, 06:53 AM
Prayers for a positive and complete recovery and for all family members.

ajdereicup
03-04-2013, 09:09 AM
Hope she has an easy and speedy recovery

lji372
03-04-2013, 09:18 AM
Hope she has an easy and speedy recovery

what he said ^^^^^^
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